Set
aside a specific time in a comfortable place where you will not be interrupted.
Your relationship with your pet, and your budding abilities as an inter-species
communicator, is important and merits the same attentiveness you would
give if you had something important to say to a close human friend.
Remember why you are doing this! A clear intention may not always guarantee
the clear result of your choice, but it definitely assists you to keep
on track. It's important to come to your session with the basic intents
of respect for your pet and their perceptions, of gratitude for all the
joy and love you receive in the relationship, and of openness, because
what you receive from this conversation isn't within your control any
more than would be an important discussion between humans. And if you
are controlling it, it isn't communication, merely you inflicting your
viewpoint on another living being.
Speak clearly. If you have a particular question or request, state it
simply, from your heart. Long explanations about "why" aren't
necessary, and can bring confusion to the situation. Your pet feels your
emotion and honesty clearly.
Listen openly. Be willing to recognize that you are a part of any behavior
your pet is manifesting. This is a key point. Sometimes it's a behavior
change or shift in perception on your part that is what is really needed,
and will work miracles in a situation. Part of an animal's service can
be to guide us towards greater awareness about ourselves. Because of the
special place our pets have in our hearts, we can "hear" insights
about ourselves more easily than we might from a human friend. We don't
need to defend our selves around our pets. Also, if you don't "hear"
anything during your session, don't be discouraged. Insights have a way
of occurring when least expected, through a conversation with a friend,
a "coincidence", or something we observe. In an instant, our
concerns can be answered or our minds inspired in a way that gives the
answer we are seeking.
Have fun! Your animal companion loves you unconditionally. It is their
greatest joy just to be in your company, and time spent purposefully with
them in loving communication makes them shine with happiness. Enter into
their world of unconditional love, experience it, and mirror it back to
your pet. For even more fun, practices mirroring that feeling to all the
people you meet during the rest of your day. After all, isn't that feeling
of love and joy why you have a companion animal in the first place?
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